Do Jamaican men really have many women?

by Anonymous
(Ontario, Canada)

I am a white woman from Canada, the majority of my friends are from Jamaica. Several years ago before my first trip to Jamaica, many many of my Jamaican friends told me, what ever you do when you go to Jamaica do not get involved with the men down there, as most of them only have one thing in mind when it comes to foreign woman "visa", and they all have several women.


While there i met a guy who was so sweet, funny and full of life, but he came from an extremely poor background. I went back a few times after that just to see him, i meet all his family and friends, and by all accounts he was a real genuine guy with no hidden agenda.

My friends (mostly Jamaican) at home continued to warn me, and said i should not get involved with him. But i didn't listen, i felt i had done enough looking into to who he was and came to the conclusion that he was different from the typical "stereotype of Jamaican men".

After a year together and many trips to see him, we decided to get married. BIGGEST MISTAKE OF MY LIFE. Within a month of getting married, the woman just started coming out of the woodwork like roaches.

Found out he was with 1 from before we met and they lived together, and she knew everything about me and had no problem with it at all. She fully excepted when i was there that he had to leave her to come stay with me.

And there were many more, 1 who he got pregnant after our marriage and used money from me to get an abortion. I found out when i was gone all these women were around him and his family, but when i was there all i ever heard was how sad he was without me, yeah right!!!!!!

There are good and bad men all over the world, and come from all walks of life, but it is so socially acceptable in Jamaica, that it's really sad. There is no way in hell that i would be ok with my man leaving home to go be with another woman.

Here i am 5 years later on my own with 2 year old triplets and an extremely broken heart and spirit. I apologize if i insult any one but the 'stereotype' that Jamaican men have many women, is actually a FACT.



Editor's Note

Sorry to hear Anonymous, but there is nothing uniquely 'Jamaican' about this behavior.

It's just people - and unfortunately, because of social or economic constraints, people will do or accept certain behaviors if they believe it will benefit them. So yes, you WILL find this happening in poorer our less developed countries too.

Google like terms about this with other developing or less developed countries and see for yourself- you will be surprised.

That said, I maintain that Jamaican (men are women) are some of the best, fun loving and true souls on planet earth (and perhaps in heaven :-).

In fact, I have a live poll running on this site asking what makes Jamaica special; inevitably the majority says it is our people - not merely the beaches, food or music.

And by the way, I believe that there are still many good Jamaican men around (most are), I am a living, breathing testimony :-)

I wonder if my other peeps would like to add anything?

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Nov 12, 2017
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Jamaica is call the Liar Country for a reason NEW
by: Anonymous

Jamaicans in general are notorious Liars. They lie about all things for all sorts of reasons. Its part of the culture and second nature to fabricate all things. Many people in the world know and call it "The Liar Country". All most every man in Jamaica has multiple and up to five or six different baby mama's as they are called. The don't use condoms and the country is highly infected by AIDS due to this problem. They have also created lottery scams recently as well. They sell people's land that does not belong to them. They mostly marry American for green cards. You will then soon find out all the baby mommies come out of the wood work begging for money from you and him now that he can get a job. Stay away from Jamaican men.

Sep 29, 2017
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I just met a Jamaican man and this article is quite disturbing NEW
by: Anonymous

I'm from and live in the US and I just met a man from Jamaica less than a week ago n he's very charming and all the sex is great but as everyone else is saying "something is just not right" he already is telling me he loves me had me talk in the phone with his family in Jamaica and everything and is talking about marriage and kids. Needless to say I'm not one to Move so quickly to even jump into a relationship less lone marriage and if u ask me how fast he's trying to move is a definite red flag. He just left my house a lil while ago to go to "work" but needless to say after reading this I don't think I'll be seeing him again. F#!k that I don't wanna take that chance.

Sep 27, 2017
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THEY ARE ALL LIARS!!!!!!!!! EVEN THE FAMILY.. NEW
by: Anonymous

OMG!!! My friends were warning me to stay has far away has possible, even my best friend stopped talking to me and said I was crazy.. I met him in October 2016 in Canada, fell in Love right away with his charm. November he left to go back in Jamaica(St-Anns) for 5 months, we spoke on the phone every day , he made me talk to his hole family too even his kids, everyone knew me. when he came back in April we were IN LOVE .. I have never been in love like this before, I JUST LOVE HIM ... So many lies has come up recently, I found out he his married back home, and somehow his wife found my number and tried to call me, not to tell me to leave her man alone but she tried to be friends with me...Everything is coming out, lies after lies . my friends are telling me
that she knows everything about me and is in on the scam... After reading all of your stories I dont want nothing to do with him.. I am done with him.

Sep 09, 2017
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Yes, Jamaican men are liars NEW
by: Anonymous

I am 38 year old single woman living in Canada.. These are my thoughts based on experienced

Let me just say, It is interesting and somewhat sad to read that many Jamaicans condone, excuse this cruel, non-human like behavior displayed by many Jamaican Men.

Many people in Jamaica turn a blinds eye by stating that there are cheating men all over the world....this may be somewhat true but we are talking about PREVALENCE..... What is the likely hood that you will meet a honest hardworking , non-cheating Jamaican man.???.......Whether he lives way up in the hills, in the country or right there on Negril Beach.....Chances of finding this type of man is very very slim. Epecially if you are from foreign... they don't see you as a human being with emotions....Just an opportunity for sex and lots of money.... Deceit is very much a part of their culture...

The majority of Jamaicans believe that all foreign women come to Jamaica to chase men down...cause Jamaican men are the best lovers....Actually they are not! Too much bravado...this that pumping hard and long is great sex...Well its not for me.... men down. .... Not every woman come there looking for a Jamaican man..Some people who come to Jamaica for holiday are looking for fun....but unfortunately it turns into something very deceitful especially if you try to maintain friendly contact when you return home. This description is called the Love Scam...a very acceptable way to make money in Jamaica......It goes something like this....you meet..have a great time while you are on holiday (you pay for everything)......he immediately tries to make a connection, make you feel special....calls you when you get home(they look at the phone calls as part of the job responsibility of the Love scam).....Then when he feels that you are hooked....then come the hard luck stores. Or he is so in love with you that he wants to marry you...so that you can move him from Jamaica.

For example A man name Paublo from Negril presented himself as honest, kind, god-fearing rasta.. this went on for years...... Actually, he turned out to be the biggest con artist that you will ever want to meet....Do not believe a word that comes out of his mouth..not one word...

So after years of being lied to and deceived you decide to discuss it with him ...Do not expect an apology or any type of remorse...Absolutely no admission of guilt.....Most likely, he will become aggressive and attack you like an wild alley cat....
Please do not feel sorry for their hard luck stories, there will be plenty....And when they start asking for money, that is you cue to start running and keep running. All family friends coworkers are aware of the scam but will not tell you.

Yes......liars are found all over the world....But one thing for sure, you are playing a very dangerous, risky and expensive game when trying to date a Jamaican man..Because chances are very high that you will lose......i have experienced/heard/read the same sad love story too too many times.....

Aug 17, 2017
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Stop believing lies!
by: LADIES Trust your INTUITION

JAMAICIAN MEN ARE THE WORST!.They have no conscience, it's almost inhumane.......Ladies if a man has NO EMPATHY/CONSCIENCE u can't change him so stop trying and wasting energy before his cheating gives u AIDS....they sex any woman with legs no condem....no problem!!!!........it's almost like they subconsciously hate women( only for sex,food and money ).....WALKING DEMONS!

Aug 15, 2017
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Run as fast as you can
by: Anonymous

Hi I'm Irish Catholic from Ireland. Met a Jamaican man now 5 years living together. Here in the states.He is an alcoholic functioning with a good job. I myself have a good job own my own home. He has to take off constantly working on power lines.
He is the biggest liar I have ever met. Never will admit to any off he wrong doing. Has cheated so many times it's unreal. I keep finding out more and more stuff. I don't mean to judge I'm not God but I can tell you I have been through hell and back. As of today I'm done with this life. Found out he is with strippers sexually. Plus other side kicks. He will never admit to been caught almost red handed. That's ok cause when I say I'm done I'm DONE. I don't want to end up with aids or anything. I deserve better. Never ever will I go through this again. I should have known all his friends have side kicks married or not. It's so sad. Little dose he realize he has lost the best thing that ever happened to him.plus he thinks he is it. Are you kidding me. I'm a great woman that will eventually meet Mr wright. Cause he is Mr wrong. Thank God I have finally woken up to his lies. Good luck ladies.

Aug 03, 2017
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Beware
by: Anonymous

I married a man from Ochi. Everything that I am reading here is very true. I find it extremely sad and hurtful. I agree, they have lots of women. The family and their friends know. The more you go back you will notice how they surround you with their friends. It is for a reason. If you do think you are different, go for at least 2 weeks or more so you can really see what is going on. Don't waste your time and your heart. You have feelings most men there do not. Save yourself the time and the pain. That being said, while I was out with my husband many white women were throwing themselves at these men.

Jul 30, 2017
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This one was horrendous , but my new one is much improved
by: Anonymous

Omg. I met a guy from Ocho Rios. While on my vacation. A while back now. He claimed he was faithful to me. But I caught him out in so many lies. He had multiple relationships with women. I found out when from my family and friends that had seen him out with other women, that he was cheating, on all of us, with each other. I'm not sure how many women he had on the go, but he had lots. He never called me by my name. Always "babes" probably, so he didn't confuse himself and mess up.
Of course when I ended it, he called me every name under the sun. He was the most horrendous person I have ever had the displeasure of meeting. I think he believed his own lies. It has made weary of meeting Jamaican men. Having said that I met a lovely Jamaican man , here in Canada. I'm taking it real slow but he it the absolute opposite of the one I met in Jamaica.

Jul 28, 2017
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Beware of Jamaican Men!!
by: Anonymous

I met a Jamaican man many years ago here in the United States. I fell head over hills in love with him after dating him for about a year. We got married. I got pregnant. While I was pregnant another woman started calling my home. She told me that she was his fiance, and that he was going to divorce me and marry her. The woman eventually started coming to my home without my permission. She did this for several weeks until I threatened to call the police on her. I was afraid for my life. I did not end the marriage right away because he told me that was a liar and that she was jealous of me. So, we worked on the marriage. A few years later he abandoned our relationship, and moved to New York. He immediately got another woman pregnant and asked her to marry him. However, we were not yet divorced. I was going to file for the divorce; however, he decided to file because he thought this would help him to avoid paying me alimony or child support. The judge granted the divorce; however, she ordered him to pay child support. He then had the nerve to ask if he could come back to live with me. So, I told him no. He is very angry that he has to make child support payments. I also found out that he fathered another child while he was living here with me. That child is now going on nine years old. I should have walked away from the marriage as soon as the first woman started calling my phone and coming to my home. I let him sweet talk me and I listened to his lies. It cost me years of heartache and pain. I am glad that I am out such a horrible relationship. I have now moved on with me life. However, my neighbor is currently involved in a relationship with a Jamaican man. They have one daughter together. She wires his family money in Jamaica, and she even sends clothes and other items from the US to Jamaica to his family. He only stays with her on Monday- Thursday. Friday-Saturday he claims to be working out of town in another city.

Jul 23, 2017
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Similar Experience
by: Anonymous

It is true, I dated a Jamaican for years and fell in love with him. I even spent time with his family without him. Little did I know he had multiple affairs with almost everyone and his family even knew - some were family friends! And all of the women including myself helped him financially gain in some way be it money, food, cars. He had multiple relationships, he got another woman pregnant, was married to someone, all while dating me. They are extremely manipulative and will use anything they can against you.

Jul 18, 2017
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Yes they are especially one name Don b from Ocho Rios
by: Anonymous

This guy was Jamaican born, but lived in Miami. Don't be fooled by his American 'twang' accent. Purely put on to lull tourists into a false sense of security.
He will charm you , tell you he loves etc. He did that to me many times, meanwhile telling me he was faithful to me, then I found out he wasn't. I met him while on vacation.

He had women all over the island from Ocho rios, Montego Bay to Negril!!
Many were returning tourists from around the world.. he's partial to Americans and Canadians! Do not be fooled he is a predator, what's more he refuses to use condoms. I was devastated when I found out he had so many women from everywhere. He claimed he was a recording artists, but in fact he was a 'Rent-a-Dread' ! He on every social media, daily his cellphone would ring with women calling him! Twitter, Snapchat, Facebook, Hangout etc.

He always had some hard luck story and often asked for money, which he spent on cannabis. When he didn't get it he would get aggressive and swear at me and call me such degrading names. He was a nasty individual.

Please be careful in Jamaica, of course not every man is like him. Unfortunately, there are many like him. So please be on your guard as you don't want to be left alone with a child!

Fortunately for me, after my awfully, traumatic experiences with this lying and cheating individual, I am now happily married with my Canadian husband!

He is called Bjorn Fox , from Ocho Rios.
He has many aliases Don B, Don Bizzle.
You have been warned.

Jun 25, 2017
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Additional Comment to Jamaican Men the Best
by: Anonymous

One added thought here: I have never been to Jamaica and I am a white Canadian women. Thus, all of my relationships have been with Jamaican-Canadian men. Honest to god, I have never met a shady one. They work circles around white guys and are very dedicated to their families. I have never met one that wanted anything from me but loving times and affection. So, perhaps it is just the socioeconomic conditions in Jamaican that brings out the less than best qualities -- that can happen to anyone. The Jamaican men I know are decent and awesome.

Jun 25, 2017
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Jamaican Men are the Best!
by: Anonymous

Wow, I am really surprised to read all the negative comments. I love Jamaican men and my very best relationships have been with Jamaicans. I am polyamorous so I think it is perfectly normal to love more than one person so i do not mind if my guy has another woman as I usually have two men. None of that matters because when i am with a Jamaican man I am the center of his attention: I feel sexy, beautiful and loved and they always say the right thing. Bar none they are the best lovers; huge stamina and built to play. They are the only men I bother with.

Jun 06, 2017
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I understand your Pain, but we ain't all bad
by: Anonymous

I've being reading all your comments coming all the way down.it's very unfortunate that some of you wonderful women had to experience such tragedies and the bastards that did that to you are living punishment free. if you were used or in some of your circumstances is still being use, I sincerely
Apology on the behalf of all the remaining Men of high standard from Jamaica and those who are still living in Jamaica.
I'm a Young man that lives in Jamaica most of my life and I don't share the same ideology like those awful set of men you described. My core values are very much different. while i like to interact with persons from different countries, I'm very much independent, honest and best of all not a scammer/fake nor a male prostitute.
There is good and bad everywhere people may go but the important thing is to identify them and don't be deceived. Look deeper into things before getting deeply involved(my mom thought me that) with them.
Oh and about the many women aspect.... there are some truths to that as well as lies, so basically 50,50. not all Jamaican men have multiple partners. some prefer it yes but not all. I for one don't because its not healthy and it causes a lot of trouble and I rather live peacefully.

Apr 20, 2017
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Don't be seduced
by: Anonymous

I can tell you first hand that these Jamaican men are taught to seduce you to make a better life for themselves and their families. I have been married to a Jamaican man that I met in Jamaica almost 20 years ago. He worked at a hotel where I was staying for a couple weeks on vacation. I was in my early 20s and looking for true love. He was very kind and happy go lucky. He made my vacation the best time of my life. He took me out while I was there almost every night and introduced me to his family. A year later he moved to the United States for a job opportunity. Over that year between my trip and his move to the US we talked daily. I admit I fell hard for him and wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. While visiting him in the US, he asked me to marry him. He was on a work program and would be returning to Jamaica soon. I accepted his proposal and we moved in together and got married the following year. The first three years of our marriage were incredible. He cooked dinner for me every day, helped with laundry and chores and made me feel like the luckiest woman in the world. Sometime during the fourth year, things started to change. He became mean and verbally abusive. We kept trying to work through things for the sake of our child, who is now an adult. I later found out that he had been seeing several other women in the states and had even gotten two of his coworkers pregnant. He has been the biggest mistake of my
life. I am in the process of divorcing him, but the challenge of walking away from him without him getting many of my assets is unreal. He wants to take everything. He is not the person I met and fell in love with. In fact on visits back to Jamaica in the early years, he had a totally different persona. He would put on Jamaican paraphernalia and become an arrogant jerk. He left me at a hotel, while he went out and had a good time. As an older woman now, I see that hindsight is 20/20. I wish that I had left him the first time that I found out that he was a liar and cheater. Don't be fooled by the family being really involved in church. That is part of the culture. Just as much as the acceptance of cheating and begging for money is. if I knew then, what I know now I would've run like hell from him the first day I met him. Trust me Jamaican men are very seductive and romantic. This is all part of their training to get you to become their lifelong meal tickets. This is why many of them work in the hotel industry. Us women who come there to visit for vacations are easy prey, especially when we are young and single. Do yourself a favor and do not get involved with a Jamaican man from Jamaica or those that are born and raised in the US. It is unfortunate that the culture and the history of being impoverished or from impoverished families is deeply in imbedded in the Jamaican's sense of self and thus they are looking for a hand out, through lies and deception. I am not a bitter person, but I am cautious and I want to help others avoid the pain that I have in the world for the past 15 years. I regret staying with this man for the sake of our child, because it has really affected our child's relationship with us as well. Our child hates him and is angry with me for staying with him. Our child found out about his infidelities and wanted me to leave.

Feb 25, 2017
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Women choosing the wrong Jamaican men
by: Anonymous

I am a young Jamaican man living in the UK, non of these stereotypes fits me . I have no kids, I am working, I am studying and I know how to treat a women. I was raised by a women and around lots of female cousins.Therefore, I have too much respect for women. Then again, you have other Jamaican men with multiple women and baby mothers giving us the good ones a bad name, now all women putting us in the same category.

Feb 20, 2017
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Hail d I
by: Anonymous

Poverty long eye their culture n abuse of women permits this low immoral behaviour, pass far

Jul 07, 2016
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taking no side
by: Mack

Reading through all the comments makes me sad, as I found this to be true. By the way, its a two way street as women do this to men too.

A lesson well learned by some while a fantasy come through for others.

Jun 30, 2016
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you get what you chose, live with your choices, don't be bitter.
by: Anonymous

Well sorry if am not going to apologize for the act of any of my fellow countrymen, but am tired of women making bad choices when it comes to men, then blaming and labeling every Jamaican man as bad. No man is perfect, but a lot of the men I know are good decent guys with upstanding values, but truth be told most of you women would not give them the time of day as they are not gonna tell you what you want to hear but will tell you the uncomfortable truth. As for me you all can keep your visas and money I earn my own and have always done so. I love women that's my only sin so I respect care and do my best to be tender. I am a realist who is very frank, so as for the guys who are not into games, who hardly get the time of day we will look on shake our heads and just say its how it is. Some advise, if you have felt unattractive all your life and you suddenly find a guy on a beach in Negril that immediately finds you irresistible and you decide to give it up enjoy the moment but understand it may just be a moment not a life time, dont be bitter for a choice you made.

Jun 29, 2016
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Please wait for the truth.
by: Anonymous

I lived in the U.S.A for over 20 years, and got tricked by two women, almost lost my life, and got
venereal disease, I'm not angry anymore.

tHERE ARE TRUTHS about what is said about some Jamaican men, you will have to spend time to interact with them, no sex, no money, no fanfare until you know for sure that he is truthful.

Too often foreign women come's to Jamaica looking for a rent a dread,and they get what they asked for paid sex, women you help to make them what they are, no good, conniving, worthless wretches,
just hold out a bit longer until you find the truth, quit jumping into the bed with them, and opening your purses until you know the truth.
these fellows infatuate about you the moment he see's you, and wants a relationship that is a falacy, talk to the local police, pastor JP,business man, before you decide to trust him

Negus W

May 18, 2016
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Yes the younger ones do.
by: Anonymous

I myself as a Jamaican living in NYC got caught in the same trap..and yes the family in on the scam especially the mother.she's living in the USA son living in ja.she introduced us I didn't know it was a scam to get him in the United States. .marry the guy I a year after doing the filing only to find out he's gay .thanks to one of the family members. Yes always finding excuse not to have sex with me .always asking for time..I got rid of him cancel the paper .the will use cheat lie and thief you..don't trust the family especially the mother. .all thieves. .

May 05, 2016
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Do Jamaican men really have many women
by: Anonymous

Yes and no. It is where you are meeting these men, if you meet them in the club what do you expect, you are going to get a clubber . They are going there to play because they know that there are women who goes there to catch a man. There are good good one woman man in Jamaican , they are already taken. Let the mothers introduce you. Christian mothers that is. Be careful you don't appear desperate, you will get used.

May 05, 2016
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Jamaican Men
by: Anonymous

I have heard of these things about Jamaican men since going to Jamaica since 2011. So unfortunately because they really done have to be so evil and and heartless to treat women as a using tool for money. I am sorry but I don't believe one has to be so cruel to emotional wreck a woman's heart for money. But in the end We reap what we sow. Ando Jamaican remember you have daughters and sons to that can be hurt like you hurt and or use foreign women.

Jan 13, 2016
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Run and don't look back
by: Anonymous

First let me say this is a depiction of the men I have encountered not all are the same but the few make it hard for the ones whom are truly sincere!!!!!!!Let me tell u from 3 years experience,these Negril Jamaica men are the worse....They are the most roaming,conniving,calculated liars I've ever met...everything is about money and sex.....No they don't love you,no they don't adore you and yes they have 4 more like u in rotation on flights coming from US,Canada,UK.......you are a replica and a opportunity ONLY!!!!!....you are the only one in love not them it is all a one sided dream !.i don't think they respect women or have empathy toward anyone else but themselves and yes all their friends and family is in on the money scams .....even sweet dear Mama!!.......you will hear every and any excuse to get money OMG!!!!.....they are pure perfectionist at faking a relationship to get visa/money and most have plenty of women and hidden baby madda.....when ur there visiting their backup women will keep quiet because they fear the Jamaica man wrath, they don't play them getting in dey business!!......I find the older ones to be more genuine and old school and the younger ones very conniving,materialist and manipulative...My advise to ANY woman visiting Negril to just put ur sunglasses on and enjoy the sun,beach,food and nightlife but stay away from the scammer,lying,deceitful men ....it's not ur place to pay any man's rent,or schooling,or feed or provide-you are only on vacation for a week and owe no one anything!!!!!!!...if u got a phone number delete it at the airport or u will surely become a walking breathing Western union after returning home....You HAVE BEEN WARNED!

Jan 10, 2016
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I agree
by: Anonymous

I met a Jamaican when visiting another island as he was living there after being on the run in Jamaica. I travelled back and fourth and maintained the relationship during periods of absence by speaking every day for hours at a time. He was deported back to Jamaica in 2011 and I travelled there meeting his family who had no contact with him while he was abroad. I got on with them all as I also did with his friends after travelling back the pity stories came, no food no clothes no sneakers etc no credit for the phone or money to travel so couldn't look for a job. I remember being told by him that if i can't assist him, where's the sense in the relationship as he could be with a Jamaican woman' I ask myself now why I didn't tell him to run along then as his behaviour ( begging) got a lot worse, stories of being arrested and needing money to pay to make the case go away etc I heard it all and then he talks of respect after acting like a child.

I'm finished with that rubbish I'm sure there are some nice makes in Jamaica or who herald from there but after the crap experience I had, no thanks I will leave them to woman with more patience than I have for that tomfoolery

Oct 26, 2015
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My Curiosity is slowing down
by: Nic402

OMG.. This is so sad. I want to believe there are good men in JA, and other parts of the world BUT to have an entire family in on the scam is low down. I have been in conversations with a guy and he already tells me he loves me. I found this suspicious ( i am irresistible) but come on LOVE. You don't know me, I could be trying to exploit him the same way some of those guys are doing ( not for money of course )
Now I'm going to continue my friendship with him with my eyes open and heart on guard.. I know Jesus has sent before me and O trust he has my back.
I pray all broken hearts are healed !!

Sep 22, 2015
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i was used
by: Anonymous

im in the same position as the initial writer.. i was engaged, found out he was cheating. He dumped me and now i am also pregnant 15 weeks with his triplets. He has cut all ties and is on the hunt for his next victim..
They know what to say, how to act to make you feel you are the center of their universe and its a lie... his family also knew he was cheating and though i stayed with his family they never even hinted that this was the case. Its sad.
So, be careful!!

Aug 11, 2015
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my experiencevwith jamaican men
by: Anonymous

I met a jamaican while visiting and went back there once to spend time. I had a great time but it cost me plenty. It seems that money and sex are the only thing that matters. I know they have many other women. I do not take that personally. That is their ways. They do stay together and will tell u anything to get whatever they can. I for one got scammed out of money. I see how poor they live so i didnt mind so much. If you want a jamaican man you just need to accept this. If not stay away cause your heart gonna get ripoed out. I just took it for what it was a good time nothing more.

Jun 16, 2015
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agree but no
by: Anonymous

HI. I am a Jamaican male and i do agree with you that Jamaican men are predators but it's not everyone of us. 97% of the male I know here are predators and that only leave a few good ones. I had to comment because I know I am not like those harsh men and to show that it is very hard to find Loyal Jamaican men, you just have to hope you find the right one. It is not all jamaican men are predators and I am not one so there must be a few more good guys here.

Jul 12, 2014
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Tru Jamaican men have plenty of women
by: lisa

I went to school with a Jamaican years ago we met back up on a social site. He told me he's not seeing no one. He is staying in Augusta rite now. Come to find out he told me he had to take an urgent trip back to jamaica. While he's there I see pictures of him and some female all hugged up. Kissing. Smh. Glad I did not get deeply involved. I was hurt. But I'm glad it wasn't a long term.

Jul 12, 2014
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Tru Jamaican men have plenty of women
by: lisa

I went to school with a Jamaican years ago we met back up on a social site. He told me he's no seeing no one. He is staying in Augusta rite now. Come to find out he told me he had to take an urgent trip back to jamaica. While he's there I see pictures of him and some female all hugged up. Kissing. Smh. Glad I did not get deeply involved. I was hurt. But I'm glad it wasn't a long term.

May 28, 2014
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Broken Heart!!
by: Dmarie

IT is so sad to read all of these stories of broken hearts from Jamaican men. I myself was hurt. I went to Jamaica 03/2013 and met a man who swept me off my feet. I also had friends telling me don't trust, but I didn't listen. He kept saying he wasn't like all the other men, he has no one, he loves only me. I went back to Jamaica 5 times in 1 year. I knew his family here in the states and there. He is from Negril and has family in Hanover/Spring Mountain. The last time I was there ( for 14 days) I noticed he had another phone, I also noticed he there was a lot of call not being answered. SO when he was passed out asleep I got the number from his phone( I realize I was wrong for going threw his phone but I would never have found out)When I put it in my phone the # linked up with my Whats App and it was a female. It took weeks before I did anything but when I did I found out that he had another woman from Florida that had been coming to see him before or after I was there. He even asked her to marry him 2 weeks before I went. He has hurt me so bad now telling her Im a lair, he wasn't with me. I love and trusted him with all my heart.I was also faithful to him for 1 yr. He always said he didn't want to come to the US and he never ask me for anything. Men like this don't deserve anything good. they are lairs and only care about them self!!

May 23, 2014
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do jamaican men have a lot of baby mothers and children?
by: leeeah

Hiya I'm leah I'm from London uk, I went on vacation to montego Bay for 3 weeks, and I met this really sweet and kind and loving guy he actually worked at the hotel, I only just started getting to know him and he's such a lovely guy, I admit I'm actually in love with him. But there's one thing I fount out, he's a father I didn't know till I asked him have you got any kids out of curiosity? And he told me he did and was wondering why, he's different though, he told me he doesn't believe in cheating and he hates arguing and all this, and he actually has got a lot of money he even told me that too, but he's really loved and I'm going back to see him in a couple of months again but I need someone to warn me a couple things? I don't know a lot about jamaican men, only my friends have told me that they have many children, like all the jamaican artists like, bob marley, vybz Kartel, and all them guys etc, but I'm very surprised wow

Jan 01, 2014
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same story.....
by: tasha

I read your posts and it sounds almost what I'm dealing with now. I was with my husband for 2 years before we got married(known him for 3). After we got married I found out I was pregnant.(we did outside Canada sponsorship), when I ws about 3 months pregnant I had this female call me from his,phone saying a bunch of stuff to me, long story short he said she was,lying and just,liked him and only anted,to cause,problems. Shortly after him and his daughter arrived to Canada, I found that the lady that called me was infact his woman back home and his other baby mother that I,did not kno about. Cheated on me and got her pregnant. She knew,all about me and allowed it. Even when,I went to Jamaica,she did,not care. My son and her son are,not even a year about. Honestly this relationship has put my views on Jamaican men down. I will never trust anyone again, I'm broken hearted and bitter. Its hard to leave to this day because he says he owns me, I'm his wife and I have to deal with the beg of woman and babymothers,back in Jamaica and Canada, and for,some reason its my fault y he does what he does because I NAG him too much....its a sad truth. I would have never,believed what ppl say to be true about Jamaican,men but it is......sad

Apr 07, 2013
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by: Anonymous

what a complete idiot i was this guy was handsome and charming was arrested for carnal knowledge of an underage girl said he wasinnocent and 15 thouand pounds later i find out that he was cheating on me with another tourist and so i stopped sending him money now i am a slag i hope that they lock him up and throw away the key no more jamaican men for me

Feb 14, 2013
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Broken hearted with Triplets
by: Anonymous

I would like to say that my previous entry was in no way meant to bash all Jamaican men. I know there is good and bad in every country, culture and race. I have not been with a man from any other foreign country so I can not speak of them, can only speak of my personal experiences with Jamaicans. However I have many friends who have also had very bad experiences with Jamaican men. I love Jamaica, it is a beautiful country. The people there are fun and full of life. I met many friends there who are genuinely nice, and just wanted a friend. However there were also many many who were a little too nice, cause they just wanted what they could get, Including most of my in-laws. I will never stop going to Jamaica because it's a wonderful relaxing place to be, however I would NEVER get personally invovled with any one there ever again, men or women. Thank you to all of you who gave your words of encouragement.

Feb 11, 2013
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Be strong
by: Anonymous

I am so sorry to hear this story for several reasons, I love Jamaica dearly and travel there often and I too have a Jamaican love interest so it is very dissapointing to hear stories like this because I don't want to believe that "all" jamaican men are like this. Unfortunately I have heard many many stories that suggest that is the case. The verdict is still out on my situation. I just want to tell you that I will pray that you get some relief from your heartache. I know how that feels, and to have children on top of that must be devestating. Things will get better for you, be strong and know that you and your beautiful babies will be blessed while he on the other hand will have to pay for his decietful ways. PS - Prayer works!!

Feb 11, 2013
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Be strong
by: Anonymous

I am so sorry to hear this story for several reasons, I love Jamaica dearly and travel there often and I too have a Jamaican love interest so it is very dissapointing to hear stories like this because I don't want to believe that "all" jamaican men are like this. Unfortunately I have heard many many stories that suggest that is the case. The verdict is still out on my situation. I just want to tell you that I will pray that you get some relief from your heartache. I know how that feels, and to have children on top of that must be devestating. Things will get better for you, be strong and know that you and your beautiful babies will be blessed while he on the other hand will have to pay for his decietful ways. PS - Prayer works!!

Feb 11, 2013
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These Jamaica men here are like those who live elswhere:
by: Rachael G.


' DO JAMAICAN MEN REALLY HAVE MANY WOMEN??

Yes' you hear them shouting to each other 'A FIVE BABY MADA ME HAVE U NO' As if it's some thing to be so proud about;
They really don't have a clue or they are so terribly wicked that they don't care about the pain they cause everyday.

I really do feel your pain and understand how you could be fooled by this man, 'There are many WOLVES IN SHEEP'S CLOTHING IN ALL KIND OF PEOPLE FROM ALL PLACES OUT THERE, They have no thought for any one but themselves.
There's a saying that goes' 'YOU SEE A MAN'S FACE BUT YOU DON'T SEE HIS HEART'


There are some who have been molested by men and women at a young age and their way of dealing with their Issues 'IS TO RUN WILD AND CARE FREE, THEY ARE AFRAID OF RESPONSIBILITIES .
You will find some sleeping with men in secret but having women all over the place just the same. Those men who use women in such a way ought to be put under some investigation AND BE MADE PUBLIC TO WARN WOMEN WHO ARE NOT THAT STREET WISED.
There are those mothers who do not teach their sons how to treat women and, because the daughters have no fathers to relate to and to teach them how a man should be' And to show their daughters how they ought to be treated & to be loved, Their daughters fall for these awful men.
The mothers who do not give advise to their Son's are some who were not treated well themselves so, They don't care about other women's feelings as they might well tell you that the same thing happened to them too. And especially if they can get anything from their Son's life style.
They will make excuses for their Son's instead of REBUKING THEM
The Book of Proverbs tell 's us that' an open rebuke is better than SECRETE LOVE, It is written also that we ought to train up the Child in the right way.
These people fail to realize that the Children are the ones who suffers.
It is not good to have Women all over the place & having Children all over the place, this will only bring forth DISUNITY IN SOCIETY. These things happens, A Man cannot be in many place at the same time to keep an eye on his Children and Teach and show them Love
You will over come and you will be much stronger than you are very soon, You can only achieve Blessings if you raise your children in the right way and to end this, 'I would like to encourage you to keep your heart free by giving your pain to God , Give yourself some me time to reflect & STAY BLESSED.
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http://www.rachaelgraham.com.

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